Almost seventeen years ago, résumé in hand, I ventured into an optical store looking for a job. I was a young girl and I had no idea working there would ultimately change the trajectory of my life. The people I would meet, and the experiences I would have, would influence me in ways I could not have imagined.
At the time, I wore a very plain, black, plastic frame. Of course, there’s nothing wrong with a plain, black, plastic frame. This can be very chic and timeless and I still wear frames like this today. However, a special person encouraged me to step out of my comfort zone and to try something new. She strongly urged me to get a frame that I considered to be somewhat avant-garde at the time. It was burgundy, metal, and very angular. It had stylized temple extensions, making the frame appear wider than it actually was. A bit unsure, I took a deep breath and had those frames made with my prescription. I wondered if the frames really suited me. I wondered if other people would find them weird. I wondered if the burgundy colour would be difficult to match with my clothing.
Once I started wearing them, I was really surprised by the outcome. Everyone loved my edgy new frames! People said they really suited me and they went with my short Meg Ryan haircut. And I had no trouble matching the frames with my clothing; I actually found the burgundy acted more like a pseudo-neutral than anything else. At the same time, I found myself being more adventurous with my clothing choices. I was falling in love with fashion and eyewear. I was starting to wear things that were not just different for me, but things that also made me happy.
“Eyes are the windows to the soul; caring for them is caring for your essence. We change a life and brighten a world.”
Sadly, the lady who helped me choose those frames passed away recently. I worked with her for many years at that optical store and she became like family to me. She showed me the ropes in optical, but she also inspired me to think differently about eyewear and fashion. In her honour, I’d like to pass on some thoughts to you. Every once in awhile, step out of your comfort zone. Go ahead and choose that frame you couldn’t see yourself wearing at first. Get that pixie haircut or wear that colourful sweater that makes you smile. You may surprise yourself when you make a bold choice. It may feel different at first, but soon you find yourself getting used to it and eventually loving it. You should also wear what makes you feel happy! Other people’s opinions are important to an extent, but in the end only you can make you happy! Finally, don’t be afraid to explore something new. At the very least, you may find an interesting hobby and maybe even a new career path. Naturally, as we enter the New Year, I find myself reflecting on the past. I fondly remember my time at that optical store and I realize it helped me become the person I am today. Somewhere along the way, optical became my profession and my passion. And with the help of that very special person, I stepped out my comfort zone and found that I loved what was waiting for me on the other side.
